Woman from Volgograd Oblast accuses ex of stalking

A conflict has erupted in Yerzovka village, Volgograd Oblast, between former lovers, escalating into mutual accusations and police reports. Tatyana claims that a man named Andrei concealed his marriage, distributed her intimate photos, and threatened to kill her. Andrei himself states that he became a victim of blackmail by the woman.

Acquaintance and Deception

According to Tatyana, over a year ago, a man who introduced himself as Sergei contacted her on Telegram. He assured her that he was single and looking for a serious relationship. After several months of communication, the couple began a romance that lasted seven months.

During this period, the woman repeatedly received calls and messages from strangers with indecent proposals, which she ignored or blocked.

In early June 2025, after their last meeting, the situation became clear. Andrei added Tatyana to a Telegram chat for intimate encounters in Volgograd. “I received a notification that Traveler — that«s how he was listed in Telegram — added me to this chat,” the woman said.

At first, she took it as a joke, but soon her phone was flooded with messages from men offering intimacy for money. After examining the chat, Tatyana found her photos and contact details there.

The group administrator informed her that the information was provided by Sergei, whose real name is Andrei. The woman found his social media and discovered that he is married and has two children.

“I«m in shock, in panic, I can»t even comprehend what«s happening,” Tatyana admitted. She spoke with one of the chat participants, who confirmed that Andrei was actively communicating there with other women.

Threats and Visit to the Wife

After learning Andrei«s address, Tatyana, through third parties, demanded that her data be deleted, threatening to tell everything to his wife. In response, according to her, the man posted information in a local Telegram chat claiming that she provides intimate services for money.

Tatyana personally met with Andrei«s wife at a beauty salon, explained the situation, and stated her intention to go to the police if the data was not removed.

After that, Andrei began to threaten her. “He said he would «tear my head off». These threats went on for two days,” the woman reported. On June 9, she filed a report with the law enforcement agencies.

On June 10, the man came to her at night, apologized, and asked her to withdraw the report. Tatyana agreed, but on June 13, the threats resumed, and now Andrei«s wife and other individuals were also threatening her.

Night Invasion of the Yard

An attempt to talk to Andrei at his apartment was unsuccessful — he did not open the door. That same night, he arrived at Tatyana«s house accompanied by his wife, mother-in-law, and a man who introduced himself as a law enforcement officer.

“They entered my yard, entered the house, I chased them out, they started to humiliate me, insult me, threaten me,” the woman said. The intruders dented the metal fence, broke the lock on the gate, and threatened physical violence, frightening the family and neighbors.

Tatyana appealed to the police again, demanding that all participants in the incident be held accountable for illegal entry, property damage, death threats, slander, and stalking.

Counterarguments of the Former Suitor

Andrei completely rejected the accusations. He claims that he did not conceal his marital status and did not plan serious relations with Tatyana. The man stated that the woman is trying to blackmail him.

“I think she«s definitely not all there in the head,” said Andrei. “She demanded money from me — 3 or 5 million rubles (approximately $30,000 or $50,000 at current rates) so she would back off, otherwise, she says, she»ll write to all authorities.”

He also reported that he has video recordings confirming that Tatyana was staking out under his windows and sprinkling salt at the door, but he did not provide these materials publicly, attaching them to the case.

When asked about distributing intimate photos, Andrei replied: “Honestly, I don«t remember that moment, what happened then, maybe it was done under stress, but in any case, it was all deleted later.”

The administrator of the intimate chat, where, according to Tatyana, her data was posted, refused to comment on the situation, stating that he does not remember such events. However, as the woman says, at the police, this person confirmed that he granted Andrei administrator rights.

Police Refusals and Possible Influence

Tatyana has been repeatedly denied the initiation of a criminal case. The rulings indicated that no elements of a crime were found in the actions of Andrei and his relatives.

“The check was conducted only several months after they broke into my house, neighbors were not interviewed, damages were no longer recorded,” Tatyana explained. She added that screenshots with threats and photos were not included in the case materials.

The woman believes that the police decision was influenced by Andrei«s brother, who heads the Volgograd branch of a large organization for searching for missing children. Additionally, Andrei»s friend, who introduced himself as a law enforcement officer, could have contributed to the closure of the case.

Tatyana suggests that she may not be the only victim. “The police told me that in such stories, there are often several victims. It is possible that he is recruiting girls and women into prostitution,” she said.

The Investigative Committee of Volgograd Oblast confirmed that the fact of entry into the dwelling was not established. “There was no entry into the dwelling; they entered the territory of the yard, which under the law does not constitute a crime,” the department reported.

The editorial office of V1.RU sent an official request to the regional department of the Ministry of Internal Affairs with a request to comment on the refusal to initiate a criminal case.