Guf's Son Calls Stepfather His Role Model
Aiza has long been happy in her new relationship — she finally found a man who became a role model for her children
The 16-year-old son of Guf and Aiza publicly chose his «new dad,» sparking a loud scandal in the celebrity family. While appearing on the reality show Vyzhyvality. Nasledniki (Survival. Heirs, 16+), Sam Dolmatov enthused on national television about his stepfather Stepan, who instilled strict discipline in him, yet pointedly said nothing about his biological father.
These frames from the show Vyzhyvality. Nasledniki sparked heated discussion
According to Sam, it was his stepfather who became his main authority figure and role model.
«He showed me what a real man looks like! He showed me the entire basic minimum,» Sam gushed. «He also works hard, including on himself, always keeps his word, always does what you ask of him, and seeks mutual understanding. He is the best person in the world, I love him very much!»
But the young man did not mention his biological father. And the fact that he pointedly stayed silent about him raised questions for many. Amid these debates, Aiza decided to set the record straight and posted a touching video about Stepan on social media, but in the caption she also sent greetings to her ex-husband.
«Stepan doesn»t lecture Sam, he doesn«t read him moralizing. He simply does things, and the children follow his example. They repeat how he gets up and makes his bed after waking early, how he washes his dishes and cleans his room, cooks his own food. All of this is the basic minimum in our home,» the blogger noted. «For a man, discipline matters, mental and physical exertion, early rising, and the ability to take care of himself. We don»t have domestic invalids. And our family motto is: domestic invalids aren«t sexy!»
These revelations struck a nerve with Guf. The rapper did not write long posts, but simply went to his ex-wife«s comments and left a terse: »Good luck.«
That short word was enough to set off a real firestorm under Aiza«s post. Internet users immediately began scolding the musician for being overly touchy. Many reasonably noted that Guf lives far from his son and does not really take part in his day-to-day upbringing, so the young man»s reaction is quite logical.
«And who else is supposed to teach him manly things if dad is far away and Styopa is with Sam 24/7. Nothing offensive, just a fact: an example is taken from whoever is nearby,» says Aiza«s follower Anastasia.
«How wonderful this is. May all children have stepfathers like this,» wishes clinical psychologist Anna Yubel in the comments.
«The young man said everything right. And who was he supposed to talk about? One of them writes songs about new fingers, while the other is actually there and is an excellent example,» writes another follower of the blogger.
«This is the kind of relationship I want between my daughter and my man in the future. My ex-husband hasn»t communicated with his daughter for 4 years and wrote that I won«t let him, even though it»s the opposite. And everyone told me: go find yourself a man, any man at all. No way — I«d rather be alone for another 4 years, but in the end both I will be happy and my daughter will one day say the same,» insists single mother Anastasia in the comments.
