Novosibirsk woman pregnant by double-life partner
Alina Nesudimova appears in a reality episode about deception, relationships, and unexpected pregnancy.
Telekanal Yu (Yu TV channel) released a new episode of the reality series Pregnant by Deception (16+) — the first show about women deceived by married men. The new episode tells the story of 22-year-old Alina Nesudimova from Novosibirsk. The cast of characters and plot twists are straight out of a soap opera.
«What a nice-looking man»
Alina Nesudimova is originally from Kemerovo (Kemerovo Oblast, Siberia). She moved to Novosibirsk with her mother in her teens when her mother remarried. Since childhood, Alina wanted to become a dentist — and she fulfilled that dream. She works at a private dental clinic and earns 100,000 rubles (about $1,100 at current rates).
One day a man came to her appointment who immediately caught Alina’s interest. She admits she had never previously checked out patients, but there was something about Dima that stirred her.
«I set my sights on him. He smelled so delicious of perfume, the whole clinic. Other doctors came and said: “Alina, what a handsome man you had on shift.” I said — well yes, he’s cute», — the Siberian woman recalls.
Viewers receive limited insight into Dima’s character beyond conflicting accounts from women around him.
Dima also liked Alina; he found her on social media and messaged that same evening. They started chatting. Dima is 32 and works as a lawyer at a construction company. He has an eight-month-old daughter. At the time he met Alina, he was married but in the process of divorce.
«That unsettled me. I asked questions: why are you divorcing if you have a small child? He answered that his wife nagged him all six years of marriage for earning too little and spending lots of time with friends. She was jealous and threw tantrums; six months ago he realized he wanted a divorce», — the heroine says.
Because of this, Alina kept her distance and, despite his active courtship, did not rush into a relationship. Only after the divorce was confirmed on paper did she accept Dima’s proposal to be his girlfriend. Everything then moved fast: after just a few dates, Alina moved in with Dima.
«I wanted to start a real family life as soon as possible. I could see Dima was serious and wanted to build a family with me», — the young woman explains.
«I want to believe him»
Alina’s parents did not support the sudden move, and her friends also voiced concern, but she stood firm — she was in love and trusted her boyfriend. Later, Alina learned she was pregnant. After telling Dima the happy news, the expectant mother awaited warm words and congratulations, but they did not come.
«So what, is that definitely confirmed already?», — Dima asked irritably.
When the pregnancy was confirmed, the man showed no joy.
«I was a bit hurt by Dima’s reaction, but on the other hand I understand that news like this probably needs time to process», — Alina said.
After learning about the pregnancy, Dima grows distant and avoids meaningful conversations or commitments.
Dima’s attitude changed abruptly. He began to distance himself, skipped meeting Alina’s parents, and then left on a long business trip to Iskitim (Novosibirsk Oblast, near Novosibirsk). His ex-wife, Natalia, added fuel to the fire: she told Alina that her ex-husband wasn’t helping with the child and that he had another woman in Iskitim. To back her words, she sent Alina a link to a certain Katya’s account: the young woman was actively posting with Dima in posts and stories, saying how great everything was between them.
«I don’t understand how to discuss this with Dima, since he isn’t answering my messages or calls. He still hasn’t come home. I can’t find peace», — the young woman says.
She searched for her boyfriend — she went to his friends, but Dima was nowhere to be found. To her credit, the 22-year-old Siberian tried to respond calmly and rationally. And Dima fended off questions to the last: he said his ex was posting the photos and videos on social media, and he didn’t know why she was doing it. He didn’t even try to hide the irritation in his voice.
«I want to believe him, and I do», — Alina says meanwhile.
«I love both of you»
Alina’s heart told her that, just in case, she needed to go to Iskitim. With the support of Natasha — Dima’s ex-wife — she set off on a mini trip. In the small town, they easily found Katya.
«He lives with me; he proposed to me», — Katya replied matter-of-factly. When warned that Dima could treat her the same way, Katya launched into a long, expletive-laced monologue, advised Alina and Natasha to organize a club of anonymous mourners, and slammed the door.
«I still can’t fully believe this. Could Dima really have been deceiving me and living a double life? It seems like the situation is ambiguous, but it turned out there really is an application from them at the ZAGS (civil registry office). I don’t understand anything anymore», — says the pregnant Siberian.
He stays away from home, sporadically responding to calls while claiming work obligations in Iskitim.
When Dima learned that his two ex-girlfriends had visited his current one, he got angry. Realizing he was cornered, he admitted — yes, there is another woman.
«I didn’t know how to tell you. I love you both; I won’t abandon you. I’m confused», — Dima said over the phone.
The wedding with Katya was in three weeks, but he still wasn’t sure — did he really want it?
«How can you love two people? Please explain it to me, I don’t understand. You chose me, you were building a family with me, and it turns out you love two!» — Alina protested. She took her beloved’s betrayal hard, but her family and girlfriends stood by her.
«A small hope that he’ll come back»
The further Alina’s pregnancy progressed, the more quickly Dima pulled away, and in the end he vanished from the radar entirely. Her loved ones surrounded her with care. Struggling with the situation, Alina sought support from women deceived like she was, and then turned to the project’s psychologist for help. By then, her love for Dima had already weakened, but she hoped until the last for a reunion — though she told no one about it.
«It’s easy for the girls to say: just take him and let him go. But I know I still love him, and that we’re having a child. I’m confused. A small hope lives in me that Dima will come back to me», — Alina shared.
Friends encourage Alina to prioritize herself and her child while pursuing legal child support.
When Elina was born, Dima still didn’t come back. He wasn’t there for discharge from the maternity ward; Alina heard neither congratulations nor words of support. Soon Alina saw on social media that Dima had married Katya. Discouraged by the news, Alina wilted.
«I feel sorry for myself. I feel like a fool who was used and dumped», — Alina admitted.
The Siberian turned to a lawyer — she is determined to make the man who deceived her bear responsibility for his actions. The hurt young woman does not intend to give up; she will file for child support, with no out-of-court settlements. She stayed in her parents’ apartment with her daughter Elina and is trying to forget Dima, focusing on her child.
More Siberians on TV
Siberian women often participate in shows on Telekanal Yu — in 2021, Alyona Podoynikova from Krivodanovka (a village near Novosibirsk) told her story in the reality series Pregnant at 16 (16+). Four years have passed since the episode aired; Alyona has since married and had a second child.
This spring, 31-year-old Olga from Novosibirsk took part in Pregnant by Deception (16+) — she became pregnant by someone else’s husband.
A resident of Novosibirsk Oblast joined the show Zhduli — a prison-spouse reality show — after marrying an inmate. The Siberian woman met the man through a friend.
