Escort Worker Describes Her Workdays and Clients' Demands

How often have you encountered escort girls in your life? Perhaps you wanted to talk to them or ask a question that«s usually awkward to bring up. Don»t worry, we did it for you. Our colleagues from 116.RU found a resident of Kazan who provides such services and asked her uncomfortable questions about the profession—directly and without embellishment.

This article covers how girls find clients, how often they get tested for sexually transmitted diseases, and why they never try drinks offered by men.

“Money should be taken from the very beginning”

Our interviewee is named Eva (name changed), she is 30 years old, and she has been engaged in prostitution for three years. Eva emphasizes that she calls things by their proper names and sees no difference between the concepts of «prostitution» and «escort». According to her, for the workers themselves, it«s the same thing, just the second sounds more pompous.

“For two years, I didn«t work so intensively, just for fun, because I like sex, and in the last 2–3 months, I started working intensively, individually, and it somehow simplified my life,” she began her story.

She got into this field, as our interviewee notes, also «for fun». According to Eva, once an ex-boyfriend jokingly said that the profession of a loose woman would suit her. This thought stuck in her head over time, and she decided to try—at that time, Eva was already single. She didn«t get used to the work immediately: at first, everything seemed strange and unusual. Only after several years of attempts did she start working constantly.

“I get up, log into my account, and start posting ads. Every hour, I write a post saying that I«m waiting for a meeting, and I respond to people»s messages. At some point, a reasonable person comes along who asks directly: how much does it cost, I need this and that, I«ll come at such and such time or need to come to such and such place. Well, then the process of intercourse follows. Money must definitely be taken from the very beginning, and a timer is set as soon as the person comes through the door. You immediately take the cash for all services the person wants to buy. He might say during the process: »Let«s do this, I»ll pay you later.« And then you do it, and he»s like: «I didn»t like it, I won«t pay»,” shared Eva.

The girl has no so-called pimp or mentor—she works for herself. As a workplace, she uses either her own apartment or the address where the client invites her. At the same time, Eva admitted that she prefers to receive clients at her home, as she considers it safer.

Clients find Eva not only through social media accounts but also on special websites.

“You just pay for advertising for a month and can buy various services, for example, bumping the profile to the top, premium profiles, verified photos to inspire more trust,” explained the interviewee.

According to her, if working without days off, she can earn about 200,000 rubles (approximately $2,200 at current rates) per month, and if she «tries a bit harder»—up to 400,000 rubles (approximately $4,400 at current rates).

“I worked exactly 15 full shifts: when I went to work in the morning, promoted profiles, responded to everyone immediately, and that way, I had 4–5 clients a day,” specified the girl.

Taboos, STDs, and “wild requests” from clients

With clients, Eva always uses protection, although, according to her, they often ask for the opposite. The interviewee notes that she doesn«t understand such logic: how can one go to a prostitute without protection, even despite regular checks. For example, Eva herself gets tested for sexually transmitted diseases every month.

She also said that among her clients, there are unusual and sometimes harsh requests related to submission and role-playing scenarios.

“I have clients—slaves who like to submit and be humiliated. And the harshest: I had to fuck a guy with a strap-on, then I had to urinate on him so he would drink that urine. And that«s probably the harshest thing. Oh no, another one: I had to pretend to be his daughter with a client, that was harsh. I don»t know why I agreed to that. Later, he wrote to me again, asked, but I already ignored him,” told Eva.

In her work, our interviewee also has strict taboos. She doesn«t consume substances and alcohol brought by clients, as she considers it unsafe. In the intimate sphere, she also has a hard ban on everything related to feces.

“I haven«t had aggressive clients. Only one: he came, knew the price in advance. He hands over three thousand, says: »Let«s do something.» I refuse, start pushing him, but he squeezes me and doesn«t let go. He wanted to rape me. That»s the scariest thing that happened. And all the others—they«re harmless, sweethearts,” shared the girl.

Mom said: “Well, just don«t do it in our city”

Actually, Eva wasn«t born in Kazan—she moved to the city several years ago. Previously, she studied to be a programmer and economist, but didn»t finish her studies.

“It wasn«t important to me, I was more interested in living this life, not learning some crap. I worked as a taxi driver, in delivery, as a video operator-editor, travel organizer,” told our interviewee.

The girl also noted that she«s interested in ethical hacking and doesn»t rule out that in the future she might master this profession.

Since Eva started working in escort, she hasn«t been in a relationship. According to her, a partner would find it hard to accept her work. She admits that she doesn»t feel a strong desire to find a soulmate now. There was a period when she thought about family, but in the end, she came to the conclusion that it«s too early for her.

“I would never have done otherwise, even if I went back. Exactly what I went through made me who I am,” reflected the sex industry worker.

Eva«s relatives don»t know what she does. She assumes that they likely won«t find out, as the family lives in another city.

“I tell my sister that I work in webcam. Possibly, someone suspects, possibly mom suspects, but why talk to her about it. When she assumed that I«m engaged in prostitution, she said: »Well, just don«t do it in our city»,” laughed Eva.

The correspondent from 116.RU also asked Eva how she would react if her daughter in the future decided to go into this field. The interviewee answered that she wouldn«t judge her.

“But at the same time, I need to restore her common sense if it«s lacking. There»s no point in forcing. If a person really wants it, it will be easier to support them than to stop them,” considered the girl.

Disadvantages of the work

Despite the fact that our interviewee remains in the profession, she urges other girls not to go into this field: according to her, there are enough disadvantages. It«s easiest to change jobs for those who have a clear understanding of their boundaries, she thinks.

“You never know who will come to you, don«t know what they might pull. In my practice, there have been few strange and dangerous people, perhaps I just have good karma. You have to constantly get checked because anything can happen. You can fall for a scam. And, essentially, you work with people who are crazy. Without accepting any outcome, it will be hard to work. You»ll constantly experience fear, money can turn your head, it«s hard to start relationships,” concluded Eva.