Escort Worker Shares Candid Account: 'Dealing with Crazy People'

How often in life have you met escorts? Perhaps you wanted to chat with them or ask an awkward question. Calm down, we did it for you. The editorial staff of 116.RU found a resident of Kazan providing such services and asked her about the profession — directly and without unnecessary embellishment.

In our material — about how girls find clients, how often they get tested for venereal diseases, and why they will never drink beverages offered by men.

«Money Should Be Taken from the Very Beginning»

Our interviewee Eva (name changed) is 30 years old, she has been engaged in prostitution for three years. Eva emphasizes that she calls things by their names and sees no difference between the concepts of «prostitution» and «escort.» According to her, for the workers themselves, it«s the same thing, just the second sounds more pompous.

— Two years I worked not so densely, just for fun, because I like sex, and in the last 2–3 months I started working densely, individually, and it somehow simplified my life, — she began her story.

She also entered this sphere «for fun.» According to Eva, once her now ex-boyfriend jokingly said that the profession of a woman of easy virtue would suit her. This thought stuck in her head, and she decided to try — at that time Eva was already alone. She didn«t get used to the work immediately: at first, everything seemed strange and unusual. Only after several years of attempts did she start working constantly.

— I get up, log into my account and start posting ads. Every hour I write a post that I«m waiting for a meeting, and respond to people»s messages. At some point, an adequate person comes across who asks on point: how much it costs, need this, that, I«ll come at such and such time or need to come to such and such place. Well, and then the process of coitus goes. Money must definitely be taken from the very beginning, and the timer is also set as soon as the person enters the door. Immediately take the cash for all services that the person wants to buy. He might say in the process: »Let«s do this, I»ll give it to you later.« And then you do it, and he»s like: «I didn»t like it, I won«t give it,» — shared Eva.

So-called pimp or mentor the girl doesn«t have — she works for herself. As a workplace, she uses either her own apartment or the address where the client invites her. At the same time, Eva admitted that she prefers to receive at her home, as she considers it safer.

Clients find Eva not only through social media accounts but also on special websites.

— You just pay for advertising for a month and can buy various services, for example, boosting the profile to the top, premium profiles, verified photo to inspire more trust, — explained the interviewee.

According to her, if working without days off, then per month she can earn about 200,000 rubles (approximately $2,000 at current rates), and if «try a little» — up to 400,000 rubles (approximately $4,000).

— I worked exactly 15 full shifts: when I went to work in the morning, posted profiles, responded to everyone immediately, and thus there were 4–5 clients per day, — specified the girl.

Taboos, STDs, and «Wild Requests» from Clients

With clients, Eva always uses protection, although, according to her, they often ask for the opposite. The interviewee notes that she doesn«t understand such logic: how can one go to a prostitute without protection, even despite regular checks. For example, Eva herself gets tested for venereal diseases every month.

She also told that among her clients there are unusual and sometimes harsh requests related to submission and role-playing scenarios.

— I have clients — slaves who like to submit and be humiliated. And the harshest: the guy had to be fucked with a strap-on, then needed to urinate on him so that he drinks that urine. And that«s probably the harshest thing that was. Oh no, another one: had to pretend to be his daughter with the client, that was harsh. I don»t know why I agreed to that. Later he wrote to me again, asked, but I already ignored him, — told Eva.

In work, our interviewee has strict taboos. She does not consume substances and alcohol brought by clients, since she considers it unsafe. In the intimate sphere, she also has a hard ban on everything related to feces.

— Aggressive clients I haven«t had. Only one: he came, knew the price in advance. Extends three thousand, says: »Let«s do something.» I refuse, start pushing him, and he squeezes me and doesn«t let go. He wanted to rape me. That»s the scariest thing that was. And all the others — they are such harmless, sweethearts, — shared the girl.

Mom Said: «Well, you, most importantly, don»t do it in our city«

Actually, Eva was not born in Kazan — she moved to the city several years ago. Previously, she studied to be a programmer and economist, but never finished her studies.

— It wasn«t important to me, it was more important to me to live this life, not to learn some shit. I worked as a taxi driver, in delivery, as a video operator-editor, travel organizer, — told our interviewee.

The girl also noted that she is interested in ethical hacking, and does not exclude that in the future she might master this profession.

Since Eva started working in escort, she hasn«t had relationships. According to her, it would be difficult for a partner to accept her work. However, Eva admits that she doesn»t currently feel a strong desire to find a soulmate. There was a period when she thought about family, but in the end came to the conclusion that it«s too early for her.

— I would never have acted differently, even if I returned. Exactly what I went through made me who I am, — believes the sex industry worker.

Eva«s relatives do not know what she does. She assumes that they most likely will never find out, since the family lives in another city.

— I tell my sister that I work in webcam. Possibly, someone suspects, possibly mom suspects, but why talk about it with her. When she assumed that I engage in prostitution, she said: «Well, you, most importantly, don»t do it in our city«, — laughed Eva.

We asked the girl how she would react if her daughter in the future decided to go into this sphere. Eva answered that she would not condemn her.

— But at the same time, need to return her common sense if it«s absent. Forcing makes no sense at all. If a person really wanted, then it will be easier to support them than to stop, — explains her loyalty the girl.

Disadvantages of the Work

Despite the fact that our interviewee remains in the profession, she urges other girls not to go into this sphere: according to her, there are enough minuses there. It«s easiest to change jobs for those who have a clear understanding of their boundaries, she believes.

— You never know who will come to you, don«t know what he might pull. In my practice, strange and dangerous people were few, perhaps I just have clean karma. Have to constantly get checked, because anything can happen. Can fall for deception. And, essentially, you work with crazy people. Without accepting any outcome, it will be hard to work. You will constantly experience fear. Money can turn your head, it»s hard to start relationships, — finished Eva.

Recall, earlier we told the story of an erotic massage salon employee. 20-year-old Lisa worked for a year in one of Kazan massage studios and frankly told how the work of masters is arranged, how much services cost and why men come there. More details — in our material.